Like many other women I was brainwashed into beliving that porn was something dirty and wrong and I had a very closed mind to watching porn. I remember the first time I caught my husband secretly masturbating while watching porn.We had already been living together almost two years and had our set daily routines.
It was early in the morning and I had woken up a little before my alarm. I sleepily walked to the living room and there my husband was standing by the tv jerking off to a muted tv screen. I must of made some kind of noise because he looked over at me in terror. Without a word I stormed back to our room feeling embarrassed, angry and oddly jealous. My husband tried to follow me and discuss what I saw at first, but I stubbronly refused to acknowledge the incident and mentally aganoized over what I must have been doing wrong to make him look somewhere else for his needs.
I don’t claim to know the minds of men, but back then I REALLY had no clue how my husband’s mind worked. I thought him watching porn was a sign of his interest in other women and his lack of sexual satisfaction with my bedroom skills and I held that view for years. We never really discussed the porn issue and that lack of communication screwed our relationship up for quite a while. It created insecurities in both of us which prevented us from connecting on a deeper level sexually.
Without going into detail a series of events forced my husband and I to finally be open and honest about our sexuality and devuldge all of our wants, needs and desires sexually. Naturally this lead to us wanting to illustrate our fantasies to eachother and so the great porn search began.
Honestly watching porn together has dramatically improved our level of intimacy, improving our marriage immensly. After my porn chats with my husband I came to learn my assumptions about his porn watching were completely wrong. No, he wasn’t watching porn because he fantasized about other women and he was unhappy with how I performed. He was actually fantasizing about me and putting me in the scenarios he was watching and using the porn to help him visualize his fantasies. The way he explained his thoughts about why he watched porn it was almost like every clip he viewed was a tribute to me. Besides I rather have my husband feel conformable at home wacking off to the t.v. then the dreaded alternatives of him being secretive and potentially having to do things outside our home behind my back.
Now back to the original point of my post, which was intended to be about finding porn. My husband and I sometimes have some very specific tags we want to see and mine are always expecially rare it seems. So typically when we decide to have our adult movie night we both scour online for a couple hours finding a bunch of clips we want to get off to and share them with each other. This task becomes harder and harder when your constantly hitting the same sites over and over. Dont get me wrong I love pormhub, xvideos and xhamster. They are amazing sites, but after a while you start to see the same clips over and over. It tends to make the search repetive and sometimes ruins the experience.
My hubby and I are on a never ending quest for new porn sites to explore and I felt we should try to share the fruits of our labor with other people. So below I have compiled a list of adult sites you may like. If there are any you want to add please comment, we love to finding new sites.
The Porn sites I assume you already visit
Awesome Adult Mobil Apps
Adult App Mart Good selection of Adult themed games, porn searchs, wall papers ect. Sadly I was unable to put this app on my Samsung tab because it wasn’t compatible.
App Crawler Best Free Porn Apps This is a Web search tool that scours for any app that mentions porn. Not only does it find you porn apps it also shows you the best browsers and tool kits to cover your porn usage (luckily I don’t need that, but it might be useful for some of you ;)).
Mikandi (My Candy) My husband swears by this one, it is the ultimate in adult app stores with tons of fee apps.
Apps Bang This is a collection of the most downloaded porn apps, so it has a little bit of everything
Noteworthy Swinger/dating/sex community sites
Adult Friend Finder By far the largest community I have seen, it would be almost impossible not to find a hook up here. I love how much the creators do to keep people interacting on the site. The down fall is that if you have a free account you are very limited and every feature costs money, this one can add up quick.
Fabswingers 100% FREE Swinger dating site with video group chat rooms for when you’re feeling voyeuristic.
Social Swinging This site is an up and comer in the US. We were fortunate to be part of this site early on and love the whole interface. The site owners are very involved and super helpful.
SwingTowns A fun site, but it’s debatable if all the profiles are real and like many of the other sites the best features come with paid membership.
Let’s go dogging USA Kind of like craigslist in a way… it’s a fun take on posting about casual encounters. I really like the way it filters out your potential matches. I never have to deal with people That are way out in left field for me.
Craigslist Yes, I know many people are leery of meeting people from this site, but let’s be real, if you participate in the lifestyle your chances of sleeping with someone with diseases or creepy jerks dramatically increases compared to the typical monogamous relationship. We have had pretty good success on here when we want to do something on the fly.
Compiling this list has become more time intensive then I originally thought it would be, therefor I decided to break this post into two parts (Please refrain from yelling obscenities and throwing large sharp objects at me). Still to come in our next post will be our picks for best adult chat, where you can find free (and working) porn for Roku and Nexus TV streaming devices and our new favorite free porn site list.
Oh on a side note, go check out some of our homemade videos… You can see them at WICKED’S VIDEOS